June 2010
Order of Malta, American Association, Grants for 2010
Order of Malta
May 6, 2010
Samy Cordero's new book, "Old Enough to Do Good in the World" released.
Old Enough to Do Good in the World
April 2010
Catholic Parish of Saints Andrew, Francis and Paul, Clemson, SC
Saints Andrew, Francis & Paul Parish
April 30, 2010
Glen Rock group to mark Poverty Awareness Week
Friday, April 30, 2010
BY KELLY EBBELS
GLEN ROCK GAZETTE
STAFF WRITER
The Glen Rock Poverty Awareness Project is hard at work preparing for its annual art auction and upcoming Poverty Awareness Week across the community.
Glen Rock Mayor John van Keuren declared May 9-16 as Poverty Awareness Week in Glen Rock. This year's focus is on universal primary school education. The Glen Rock Poverty Awareness Project gave each elementary school a copy of 'Listen to the Wind,' Greg Mortensen's children's book about how one man is building schools, changing the lives of the poor in isolated parts of Afghanistan and Pakistan.
This year, the organizers of Poverty Awareness Week (May 9 to 16) are focusing on primary school education. An art auction, to be held at the Glen Rock Community Church tomorrow, May 1 at 6 p.m., will raise money for the group's chosen charity this year, From Houses to Homes. which builds homes and free schools for the poor in highland Guatemala, according to Poverty Awareness Project founder Beth Fernandez.
Four families from Glen Rock, including Fernandez's, will be flying to Guatemala to help build homes in August. Fernandez said educating women was a key point of focus in the campaign. She said that in the community in Guatemala where Fernandez went to build houses with her son last summer, families must choose between sending their children to work or to school.
"With public schooling in Guatemala, you have to pay for uniforms and supplies. When you're making a dollar a day it's impossible," she said.
There will be between 90 and 100 works of art for sale at the auction, with prices ranging from $10 to $500, Fernandez said. Among the works is an original piece created by San Francisco-based artist John Kraft especially for the housing effort in Guatemala. All proceeds from the auction will go toward a fund to build a school there. The folk band Blue Plate Special will perform at the auction, and Judy Baker of From Houses to Homes will be a guest speaker.
In the past, the Glen Rock Poverty Awareness Project has focused on fund-raising for both local and international non-profits. Last year the group raised about $24,000, $16,000 of which was used to purchase 4,500 mosquito nets for the Haiti-based non-profit Partners in Health. The year before, Glen Rock residents raised $14,000, which covered the cost of two-and-a-half water pumps for African communities. And in its first year, 2007, the organization built a home in Paterson through Habitat for Humanity.
E-mail: ebbels@northjersey.com
April 11, 2010
Volunteer Vic Cocowitch, Chapel Hill, NC
Vic Cocowitch
March 2010
St. Aloysius College, Glasgow, Scotland
St. Aloysius
Spring Break 2010
UNC- Chapel Hill Students volunteer with From Houses to Homes
UNC-Chapel Hill Students
March 1, 2010
Local Kid Does Good, Builds Home for Guatemala Family
Like many families, Jessica Sporn and her husband Fred Cordero were keen to get away for the President's Day break in February and had their sights set on a beach holiday. Those plans were thrown out the window and a firm decision made when their 8-year-old daughter, Samy, asked, "Can't we go somewhere and do good in the world?"
Sporn immediately had an idea, as a friend of hers had joined the group, From Houses to Homes, on four different building projects and had recommended the group. From Houses to Homes is an NJ-based nonprofit founded in 2004 to build homes and improve the lives of the rural poor in Guatemala.
She emailed Joe Collins, who runs it, and asked whether they could join them with her 3rd-grader Samy. Another nonprofit, Habitat for Humanity, doesn't permit participation by kids under 14.
"He was very positive about her coming, and assigned us to build a house for a family that has a 7-year-old girl" named Blanca, said Sporn. "That made the experience even more special for Samy. We look forward to keeping in touch with this family forever. "
In Guatemala, Samy and her parents, along with several other adults, set to work on building a home for Blanca's family (she has two younger siblings too), who had been living in a small, one-room shack with a dirt floor, walls of dried cornstalks 'waterproofed' with black plastic on the inside, and no windows. The parents slept in one bed, and all three kids in another. There was no running water and the room was lit by a sole, dim, fluorescent bulb.
On the team with Samy were six adults, including Blanca's dad, all giving of their time freely. There were also three Guatemalan youths inspired to learn construction after their own lives had been transformed by From Houses to Homes.
After six days of labor, Blanca's family now have a larger home made of cinderblocks and cement and a tin roof with a plastic panel that allows in natural light. The building crew and Samy were, on the last day, rewarded with a delicious meal cooked by Flore, Blanca's mom, and her sisters-in-law.
Here's what Samy thought of the whole experience.
It was hard work but it was awesome because you know that you're helping someone who is in need. You can really see that are doing something good. You're not just sending money. You're actually there and can see for yourself. The best part was meeting Blanca. Even though we couldn't really understand each other, I could tell that she is one of the sweetest people I have ever met.
Sporn, who highly recommends the trip for anyone with kids over 6, has documented the experience in her blog.
Certainly, the house-building project, the giving of one's time to help a family in need, the very opportunity to 'do good,' as Samy describes, could be the antidote for other children who have focused on self-gratification for too long.
Thanks to Jessica Sporn for the picture of Samy above with her new friend Blanca!
Posted by Bernadette Baum on March 1, 2010 11:00 AM
http://www.baristanet.com/baristakids/blog/to-do-good-local-kid-builds-home-for-guatemala-family/
August 2009
Read the blog of the Folan family who recently volunteered with From Houses to Homes at http://ourfamilysmissioninguatemala.blogspot.com/
July 2009
Students from the Westminster Schools of Atlanta, GA http://www.westminster.net/ recently volunteered with From Houses to Homes, building two homes in Santa Maria de Jesus, Guatemala. Read their blog at http://www.westminsterguatemalagroup.blogspot.com/
July 2009
We are extremely pleased to be the Recipient of two Grants awarded by the Order of Malta American Association, USA, Sovereign Military Hospitaller Order of St.. John of Jerusalem of Rhodes and of Malta.
The Order of Malta, American Association, awarded 57 grants in 2008 and 64 in 2009 and we are honored to be one of the worthwhile charities that were chosen for both years.
2009 Grants Awarded by the Order of Malta From Houses to Homes Morristown, NJ $4,000
From Houses to Homes Morristown, NJ $4,000
2008 Grants Awarded by the Order of Malta
From Houses to Homes - Guatemala Morristown, NJ $6,000
July 7, 2009
Mike Archer, a volunteer, has begun a blog about his experience with From Houses to Homes (De Casas a Hogares)
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May 5, 2009
Clemson University & St. Andrews Church, Clemson SC
http://www.afpparish.org/images/pdf/Guatemala%20Newsletter%20pdf%20(2).pdf
http://guatemalahelpweek.blogspot.com/2009/05/day-1.html
February 27, 2009
Reading Eagle
Slices of
Life: Hill School seniors raise funds to benefit Guatemalan families.
November 11, 2008
The Hill School,
Pottstown,
PA students, Eliza Bellis, Ata Zaklicki raise funds for From Houses to
Homes
June 26, 2008
We are extremely pleased to be the
Recipient of a Grant awarded by the Order of Malta
American Association, USA, Sovereign Military Hospitaller Order of St.
John of Jerusalem of Rhodes and of Malta. The Order of Malta, American
Association, awarded 57 grants in 2008, and we are honored to be one of
the worthwhile charities that were chosen.
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North West Evening Mail News
A FURNESS student who
hadn’t had his hair cut for seven years had
his locks chopped completely off to raise money for a charity trip to
build houses for impoverished villagers in Guatemala. He and a friend
set off on August 9 and they are both had their heads shaved –
Matt’s down to a grade one – to raise the £300 each
they need for their trip.
Matt, 22, a multi-media student at the University of Teeside in
Middlesbrough and former pupil of Ulverston Victoria High School and
Furness College, is currently on work placement in Wellwyn Garden City.
He said: “The shave went very well and our current fund-raising
stands at £200, with more sponsorship still pledged to us.
“Three years ago I went to Nicaragua to do something similar and
it’s that which as inspired me to get involved in doing things
like this more. I saw the opportunity and thought it was something I
had to do.” He added: “It takes around five or six days
build one house so we should be able to get through about two houses.
We’re staying with a family in Antigua and traveling up to the
village every morning and back every night.”
Matt grew up in Scales, where his family still live, and he said:
“My family is really supportive. “I think my mum,
Christine, is worried about the trips at first, but always comes
around.” Matt has a blog at www.guatemala2008.m-d-w.co.uk and
sponsorship can be donated at www.guatemala2008.m-d-w.co.uk/donate/.
June 25,2008
ThePost-Crescent
The city of Antigua in the central highlands of Guatemala is famous for
its Spanish architecture and elaborate religious festivals. "A lot of
the indigenous people who live there still maintain their traditional
culture and dress," said Pam Garman of Neenah. "It's just a beautiful
country. It's lush and colorful."
But tourist attractions and natural wonders aren't what drew Pam and
her husband Rich back to this UNESCO World Heritage Site. It was
building houses for the city's poor through the New Jersey-based
charity From Houses to Homes. "We're providing them with a future and
an opportunity," Rich said. "The home is just a component of it." A
very important component, however, given the conditions many are
facing. "To be eligible, they have to be living in a corn stock house
with a dirt floor," Pam said. "One 65-year-old woman had never lived in
a house with a window or a door that locked."
Connecting with the program while traveling through Guatemala in 2006,
the Garmans pulled together a small party of friends that went down for
their trial build last year. Based on that experience, a second, larger
group was organized this past March as a mission trip for Our Savior's
Lutheran Church. "It's one of the more hopeful things a congregation
can do, to get out of their comfort zone and get out there," said the
Rev. Catherine Mode. "Christianity is a global faith." In addition to
the participating church members, Our Savior's financed the building of
two $1,500 houses and funded a year's salary for a teacher in
conjunction with First Presbyterian Church of Neenah. The congregation
also collected toothbrushes and children's shoes for participants to
distribute among the people they met. "We could see that we made a
measurable difference in someone's life," said Addis Hilliker. "You
could see it. It was tangible and we did it."
Either walking up mountainsides to the project sites or riding in the
back of a pickup truck over rough roads, volunteers labored
side-by-side with the Guatemalan work force in charge of building the
one-room concrete block structures. "I mixed the concrete every day by
hand," said Ardy Krueter. "It's very hard work. You push yourself. You
have to get the wheelbarrow and the cement and the sand and the rock."
It's hard work, but also insightful. "On the fourth or fifth day, I was
tuck-pointing up on a platform, and everyone around me was joking and
laughing," Mode said. "And I thought, 'This is the way it should be.
The work is done together and joyfully.'" Even more significant was how
faith proved to be a common bond, rather than a source of division,
thanks in large part to the morning devotionals made possible by
Hilliker's daughter, Alicia, who acted as interpreter for the group and
Pastor Mode. "Everyone was talking in their own language and having
their morning joke," Pam recalled, "and in the middle of this chaos it
got quiet. When people heard that we were holding services in a
language they could understand, they knew they were important to us.
That's why we were doing this." In the end, many came away with a real
sense of connection. "I now have some really good friends in
Guatemala," Rich said. "It's really kind of a strange feeling." If all
goes as planned, the Garmans will return to Antigua next spring.
They will lay the groundwork for more builds by Fox Valley volunteers
and do a three-month tour of duty running the volunteers' hostel
operated as part of the From Houses to Homes program. For Pam, it's a
small contribution to a very big cause. "Peace in the world is going to
happen one person at a time," she said.
Star Ledger
Bob Braun
June 16, 2008
The Baker family of Mount Tabor is preparing to go on vacation, packing
up the sun block and the other usual things, along with young Sam's 100
soccer balls. His mom Judy figures they'll be easier to get on the
plane than the 100 kites Sam took last year. "We'll deflate them
first," says Judy. Her husband Bob, Sam's dad, groans. He knows it will
be his job to inflate the balls when they arrive in Antigua, Guatemala,
and the Baker family begins its vacation dedicated, not to lolling on a
beach, but to helping some of the poorest of the world's poor.
Sam was born in Guatemala 12 years ago and adopted by Bob and Judy a
few months later, but that doesn't have much to do with the young man's
devotion to service. He speaks neither Spanish nor Mayan, and his
memories of the Central American country come from his vacation last
year, not his birth. "I really can't tell you why but I came up with
this idea of kites last year and, it turned out, it was a good idea,"
says Sam. It's a tradition in Guatemala on All Saints' Day, Nov. 1 --
Dia de Los Muertos -- to send kites soaring to meet the souls of
ancestors who return to their families. "I didn't know about that when
I first thought of it," the sixth-grader says. "I just thought the kids
might like kites."
His idea was affirmed by Joe Collins of Morristown, a family friend and
founder of From Houses to Homes, a charity that builds homes for the
homeless in Guatemala. That's what the Bakers did for a week on
vacation last year and what they'll do again this year, but for two
weeks. Collins told Sam that poor kids in Guatemala who can't afford
their own kites -- or materials to make them -- scavenge for sticks and
discarded plastic bags to fashion their celestial messengers. Ancestors
undoubtedly still appreciate them despite the flimsy material but, Sam
reports, the children were "really excited" about the real deal last
year.
So was the Russell Berrie Foundation that gave one of its annual
service awards to Sam, along with a check for $2,500, for raising the
money for, and collecting kites from, friends and neighbors. Ramapo
College administers the awards; the Bakers were surprised to find out
Sam won. Judy says, "One day, we got this letter from Ramapo addressed
to Sam. I said, 'Sam, did you apply to college without telling us?'"
Sam also spoke at Masses to raise money for From Houses to Homes. On
one Sunday, he collected $7,000, Judy says, enough for six of the
structures the charity builds. He also gave some of his award money to
Collins' project. "We think it's a good idea to give back, to provide
services for others" says Judy, a visiting nurse. "We want our kids to
do it, too." Bob and Judy have another child, Marissa, 5, also adopted
from Guatemala. She'll be helping this year, too.
Their older child wanted to continue his own service project this year,
so he came up with the idea of soccer balls. Soccer is a passion among
Guatemalan kids, but, if they can't afford kites, they certainly can't
afford soccer balls. Sam is raising money again, buying the balls and
getting friends and neighbors to donate them. His backyard is filling
up with them in much the same way his porch filled with kites last
year. "We go out in the morning and find stuff on the porch," says Bob,
a steam-fitter. Some might think it's an unusual vacation; they spend
most of the time working -- doing physically taxing work, like carrying
buckets of cement up hills to building sites. But Bob says their trip
last year was the best family vacation they ever had." "God's work is
always easy," says Judy. "And it's fun."
Prize honors 12-year-old who collected kites, then brought them to
children
DAILY RECORD • MAY 25, 2008
Jake Remaly
Sam Baker, a 12-year-old sixth-grader from Parsippany, collected kites
for Guatemalan children who couldn't otherwise afford to participate in
an important annual kite festival in that country. He delivered the
kites when he accompanied his family on a trip there to help build
homes. Afterward, he spoke to parishioners at Assumption Church in
Morristown, helping to raise thousands of dollars and inspiring other
volunteers to join the effort. Sam's work was recognized. On Wednesday,
he became the youngest recipient of a 2008 Russ Berrie Award for Making
Difference, an annual award administered by Ramapo College of New
Jersey.
The award comes with a $2,500 cash prize. In all, 19 finalists were
selected by a committee of business leaders and professionals from
across the state. Established in 1997 by the late Russell Berrie, the
award honors state residents who show unselfish dedication to serving
others. Morristown resident Joe Collins, founder of From Houses to
Homes, an organization that builds houses for families in Guatemala,
nominated Sam for the award, said Sam's mom, Judy Baker. Sam's family
went to Guatemala for a week with From Houses to Homes last summer.
It was the first time that Sam, who was adopted from Guatemala when he
was an infant, returned to the Latin American country. Prior to the
trip, Sam heard that some children couldn't afford kites to fly on the
Day of the Dead, which is an important tradition there, and used
plastic bags on sticks instead. Feeling that was unfair, he sent his
classmates, neighbors and friends letters asking them to donate kites
and string so he and his family could bring them to Guatemala.
"Everybody just lined up when I opened the bag and they saw them (the
kites)," Sam said. "Right away, they opened them and started to fly
them." "It brought so much emotion to you," he said. "These people that
we built houses for, they were so kind. They bought us a cake. The
money they would use for a cake is what they would make in a month. ...
It was fun, there were a lot of sights to see, the food was great, but
just seeing the emotions was really the best part."
Now, the Brooklawn Middle School student has created a letter asking
for soccer balls for a school that is being built by From Houses to
Homes. The Bakers plan to return to Guatemala for two weeks this
summer. Sam's mom said some of the prize money will go to From Houses
to Homes, part will be saved for college, and she promised he could use
a small portion for fun. "We're very proud of him that he has a social
consciousness at such a young age," Judy Baker said. Jake Remaly can be
reached at (973) 428-6621 or jremaly1@gannett.com.
May 24, 2008
The Sault Star Posted
By Patricia Baker
Linda Schraeder, Jaime Lake, Alex Lake and Robert Lake climb Fuego
Volcano, in Guatemala, in March. Alex and Jaime Lake, adopted as
infants by an Algoma couple, get down and dirty to build homes for the
needy in their native Guatemala Set in the heart of the rough and
rugged Cambrian Shield, Algoma's natural beauty is inherently connected
to the layers of the region's ancient origins. Guatemala is
mountainous, as well. But that's where the similarities virtually end.
The small Central American country is only about twice the size of
Algoma, but boasts a population of about 14 million.
Neither location is foreign to Alex and Jaime Lake . The pair - not
blood brothers - was born in Guatemala and both "came home" to Sault
St. Marie and their "adoptive family" in 1993 and 1997 respectively.
The land there is "very precious," says their mom and dad, Robert Lake
and Linda Schraeder. "The Mayans are the county's indigenous people,"
Linda said in a recent interview at the Lake's home. "While they are
the majority, they are not the ruling majority." In 1996, the
government in Guatemala signed a peace agreement that ended 36 years of
civil war, a conflict that killed 100,000 and left a million more as
refugees. Much of the productive land remains in the hands of offshore
investors. As a result, the destitute live in dire conditions.
Linda and the boys went on a house-build mission in Guatemala in 2007,
which this set the stage for another adventure this year, in which
Robert went along. Returning once again to the land of their birth,
Jaime, 14, and Alex, 15, experienced firsthand what it feels like to
help someone much less fortunate. Advertisement Many Guatemalans live
in cornstalk houses with dirt floors. "They don't have keys because the
doors don't have any locks," Robert said.
The family became involved in the projects after a friend told them
about Oneness Through Mission, a spiritual organization founded by
Richard and Susan Schmaltz in association with the Sisters of St.
Joseph in Pembroke, Ont. Their mandate facilitates volunteer
co-operation through service and support of the world's poor. Susan and
Richard have been very involved in Guatemala since 1993 and "have
actually lived in Central America, leading volunteer teams in building
one room homes for the poor and setting up schools."
In January 2006, Oneness partnered informally with From Houses to
Homes, an organization, founded by Joe Collins of Morristown, N.J.
Volunteers build houses for the poorest of the poor. Robert and Linda
agree that these projects have left them with a profound sense of
satisfaction, while allowing them to appreciate the opportunities
Canadians have. Volunteers are always needed, "but going on a build is
like taking a working vacation," Robert said. Lakeshore Kiwanis donated
suitcases filled with toiletries, antibiotics, calculators and pencils,
which the Lake family took along.
"Once in Guatemala, we stayed in the community house with volunteers
from all over the world," Linda said. "And it only cost us $110 per
week per person." That's reasonable for food and lodgings, she said,
adding much-needed help is given to those who are "so poor it's almost
unimaginable." There is a process through which candidates are chosen,
while assessments short-list the most destitute. "In true 'Guate'
style, the neighbours point to the neediest among them to be chosen to
have a house built for them,"
Linda said. Each home is a 13- by 19-foot structure, set on a concrete
foundation. It is one room constructed of cement blocks with a tin
roof, cement floor, a door and window. "And a key," Robert said. "They
can finally protect themselves and their children." Individual families
are large, but they live together and make it their own, Roberts said,
adding it's a far cry from the squalor of the cornstalk houses to which
they were once confined. The need is tremendous in this predominantly
Roman Catholic nation. "There is no middle class," said Robert. Poverty
is rampant, millions are uneducated and terribly disadvantaged. Robert
pointed to one young villager, who worked on this year's build in
Alotenango.
An education for this individual was simply out the question. "It costs
$40 annually for elementary and $70 for high school." Robert said. "And
when there's six or seven in a family, it's unaffordable." A
tradesperson there takes home $10 a day, paltry compared to earnings in
Canada. The poor can't get out of the vicious cycle and the desperation
is handed down from one generation to the next. Alex and Jaime Lake
have seen the inhumane conditions so many endure. "I was born in a
Third World country, but live in a First World country now," Jaime
said.
The family didn't wish to comment on the status of Alex's and Jaime's
relations in Guatemala. "I want to go back when I'm a dad and show my
children where they came from." Alex agrees. After this year's build,
Alex, a Grade 9 student at St. Mary's College and Jaime, in Grade 8 at
St. Hubert school, have a wealth of world experience under their belts.
The pair describes their adventure as essentially one good deed leading
to another. What began as Jaime's Lenten project at St. Hubert in 2007
blossomed into a new beginning for a Guatemalan family the following
year. He challenged his school mates to raise the $2,000 required to
build a house in the Central American country. The school community
came together and the effort was successful. On March 28, 2007, Jaime
presented a cheque for the full amount to Sister Mary Sammon, Sisters
of St. Joseph. Principal Gail Bioccho-Rebek and vice-principal Domenic
Rosso looked on.
The boys and their family were once again committed to a project set to
begin in March 2008. This new dwelling was dedicated to the St. Hubert
school family. A dedication sign adorns the house. Jaime presented a
slide show to students and teachers, who each received a colourful,
handcrafted bracelet from Guatemala as a token of appreciation. Back
home in Sault Ste. Marie, the boys and their family have busy lives.
Alex is in his fourth year with the 2310 Army Cadet Corps and has
attained the rank of bombardier. He plays bagpipes with the pipe and
drum band and is a member of the cadet biathlon team. He will leave for
six weeks this summer to attend a cadet course. "I like to get away,"
Alex said. Jaime came through the Newman Navy League and is now in his
first year with sea cadets. "Brotherly love keeps us in different
divisions," Jaime said with a laugh. He'll attend a three-week gunnery
course in Kingston, Ont., this summer. Alex is the athlete. This
winter, he participated in the cadet competitions, held locally, and
accompanied the 2310's relay team to the National Biathlon Cadet
Championships in Val Cartier, Que.
All agree taking your family vacation to build a house in a foreign
land is rewarding, but difficult. Robert said this year's build was
difficult because the materials had to be moved up mountainous terrain.
"Concrete blocks and cement are heavy," he said. "But this year we had
a mixer at our disposal." "The temperatures were a moderate 75 to 80s
(Fahrenheit) with "no humidity," says Linda. A build takes a week of
eight-hour days. Each day has a goal that needs to be reached and, once
painting is done, the new inhabitants get their key and move in. "We
visited the family of last year's build, and they are doing very well,"
Linda said. "They recognized me right away. They cultivate tomato
gardens and coffee plants and set up stands and sell the produce. This,
in turn, provides the family with income." While no one pays for their
new house, it is expected that they show appreciation by doing good for
others.
Visits to Guatemala offer adventure. Fuego Volcano remains active and
erupted last August. "We visited the site and hiked 7,000 feet up the
mountain.' said Jaime, whose leg hair burned while maneuvering around
the molten lava. "It was like the Lord of the Rings." Robert, a
maintenance employee at the Ontario Finnish Rest Home, is inspired by a
co-worker. Supervisor Anja Rissanen held a bake sale to raise money for
another house build. She was cleaned out in half an hour, but raised
almost enough money for another house.
The family is uncertain whether it will participate in a third build,
but funds are secure with the Sisters of St. Joseph. "You can't believe
the feeling you get from helping others," Robert said. "The high is
even more exhilarating than a visit to Disneyland."
The Montgomery News Serving Montgomery Township and Rocky Hill, NJ
February 27, 2008
By Alexandra Mart
This past January I volunteered in Antigua, Guatemala with my brother,
Jeffrey Mart, and my mother, Barbara Kelly, to build a house for a
family with the nonprofit organization From Houses to Homes. We built
the cinder-block house with a team of two Guatemalan workers and a few
other volunteers in only one week, leveling and laying a foundation,
mixing cement, mortaring, and painting. The work was arduous but
extremely rewarding. The family of four that we built for were very
gracious. They had been living in a tiny cornstalk house, sharing one
bed and one dresser, and using scraps of tarps to keep the rain out the
best they could. We sponsored and then helped construct a 12-by19 foot
concrete home with a tin roof, complete with a sunroof, a window and a
locking door. It doesn't sound very impressive, but cement houses are
the dwellings of choice and offer much better protection from the
elements and thieves than a cornstalk shack.
The experience was a very humbling one for me. It really allowed me to
appreciate all of the opportunities I had growing up in a place like
Montgomery and to not take those privileges for granted. One day we
brought a few bottles of bubbles for the children in the village to
play with while we worked and they were unbelievably exuberant! They
leapt around squealing and swinging their arms, overjoyed with
something seemingly so simple. It is so easy to contribute to causes
like this.
You can find more information about this organization or donate online
at www.FromHousesToHomes.org. It only takes $1,500 to build one new
home, $200 to build a bunk bed with a mattress, pillow, sheets and
blanket, and $40 or $80 to pay for tuition and school supplies for a
child to attend school for one year. It is so simple and inexpensive to
help. Volunteering with From Houses to Homes was one of the most
amazing experiences I have ever had. I urge everyone to try to keep in
mind our position of privilege and the enormous power we have to help
people who are less fortunate.
Posted By By Corina Milic
February 2, 2008
THE SAULT STAR, Ontario, Canada
Building a house by hand is hard work, but that is what a local
14-year-old is getting his school to help him do. When Jaime Lake and
his family returned from a volunteer trip to Guatemala last February,
he challenged St. Hubert Elementary School to raise $2,000 – the
cost of building one brick house in the developing Central American
country. "They raised (the money) in three weeks," said an impressed
Jaime.
The Grade 8 student and his family will return to Guatemala at the end
of March to help build the house St. Hubert funded. A plaque to the
Sault school will be attached to the home once it's finished. Jaime's
brother Alex and mother Linda Schraeder helped construct another home
on the first trip, for a family in the village of Altotenago. "First,
you'd start digging a trench so you could put bricks in, put them down,
cement over them and put more on," said Alex, also 14. The boys said
they spent a lot of time hauling sand to make the cement – by
hand. "Even when a volunteer suggested we raise money for a hand cement
mixer, the lead hand just looked at him and said, 'That's not the
Guatemalan way,'" said Linda. The cement layer evened out the floor of
the new home with just his eye and a piece of string, she said. The
family they built the house for also pitched in. "It was very much a
combined effort between us going there to build the house and the
people going to live in the house."
This time around, dad Robert Lake will tag along. The first time he
visited Guatemala, it was to adopt his son, Alex. "This time it's just
sort of a family thing to do, see how these guys lay bricks," said
Robert, looking at his boys. Both Alex and Jaime were born in Guatemala
and adopted by Robert and Linda when very young. "I wanted to go back .
. . with the boys, but not to hotels and restaurants. That's not
Guatemala," said Linda. A volunteer trip provided an ideal alternative.
"It didn't take me long to make up my mind," said Jaime. "Cause we were
born there, it's good to go back and see what our culture really is."
Both trips are organized by Oneness Through Mission, a religious
charity with a Community House for volunteers to stay in while
overseas, and From Houses to Homes, a nonprofit organization that
provides most of the materials, tools and workers for more than one
hundred housing projects to date.
The homes are about 5 metres by 6 metres, with block walls, cement
floors and tin roofs. A frosted piece of fibreglass makes a skylight,
while a single window and door let in the rest of the light. This year,
Linda said, they want to raise enough money to build bunk beds and
provide a stove for the new house. She raised extra funds at her
workplace, The Canadian Hearing Society, by hosting a staff winter
Olympics competition. Everyone represented a different country and paid
a registration fee to enter. The family is also slowly packing
suitcases with toothbrushes, toothpaste, school supplies, basic first
aid products and nonperishable snacks. "You can check two (23 kilogram)
bags. Each of us will take one of clothes and one of supplies. We'll
probably leave the clothes in Guatemala too," said Robert. To make a
donation, contact Linda Schraeder at 759-6146. For more information on
the housing project go to www.oneness.ca or www.fromhousestohomes.org
LexisNexis News
December 16, 2007
I am an unabashed capitalist, believing that this system affords the
most opportunities for people to achieve the most out of life. However,
the idea of carrying a $4,000 purse ("Luxury for sale," Dec. 2) is
obscene to me. In the Dec. 3 story "His houses rebuild lives in
Guatemala," we learn that Joe Collins can build a house for $1,500. How
much more ethical it would seem to carry a purse for, say, $200, with
the balance going to relieve much of the misery in this world. I'm sure
I'm like many others in thinking that it would be nice to be wealthy,
but consider the good that money could do to uplift the less fortunate
in society. - Felicia Castricone, Livingston
Daily Record
Matt Manochio
December 3, 2007
Joe Collins has been on a mission to help Guatemalans ever since he
first visited the impoverished country in 1999: to build homes for the
nation's poor. He and volunteers from his charity -- From Houses to
Homes -- Guatemala -- had built 103 of them as of Tuesday. "There is a
goal," the Morristown resident said. "There's 1.6 million shacks in
Guatemala," he said. "We've reduced that number by 103. So we've got a
lot of work to do." Collins established his non-profit charity in 2004
and began building in early 2005. To date, he's had 236 volunteers from
18 countries help him in his mission. He said they built 24 homes in
2005, another 24 in 2006, and just completed building 57 homes last
week.
Collins returned from the Central American nation on Nov. 17 and will
go back on Dec. 30, staying until April, for another round of
construction. "I spent almost seven months there this year," he said.
"We completed our 100th home on the 16th of November." The money he
raises goes toward building materials and salaries for seven Guatemalan
builders. "I beg," he said, with a chuckle, about his fundraising
methods. "I talk it up as much as I can. And the greatest help are the
people who have come down to build houses."
Jim Tierney of Morristown is one of those volunteers who also has been
affiliated with Habitat for Humanity for 10 years. He said the people
in Guatemala wouldn't even qualify for a Habitat house. "They are the
poorest of the poor," he said, adding that he'll be going back to
Guatemala in March. "They don't have anything." Tierney said the sense
of accomplishment in helping is overwhelming. "It's really quite a
process," he said. "You go there on Monday with nothing and you go home
Friday afternoon with the accomplishment of a warm, dry place to
sleep."
Collins said much of the construction is done about 30 miles outside of
Antigua. What passes as a house there are shacks literally made of
cornstalks and dirt floors. His group dismantles the shacks and then
builds 12-foot-by-19-foot cinderblock homes with a cement floor, a
corrugated metal roof with a skylight, a metal door with a lock and a
glass window. "The average family is 6 1/2 people," Collins said. "They
do fit into that. It's no bigger than a garage up here, but we build
bunks for the kids and it's more of a sturdy structure to shelter them
from the rain and cold, compared to the cornstalk shacks."
Bob Braun
The Star Ledger
December 3, 2007
Joe Collins celebrated with a soft drink. His 67th birthday. The
construction of his 103rd house for the poorest of the poor in the
Guatemalan highlands. And the continuing re-construction of his own
life. "I don't know what led me to this," says Collins. "I guess God
did. I don't know, it's just ..." His voice trails off because this
twice-divorced 6-foot-2 former Marine and saloon owner and recovering
alcoholic and cancer survivor is not the sort comfortable with invoking
divine intervention in his own life. Collins would think it
presumptuous.
But, after a round of Christmas fundraising, Collins is headed back
down to the hot rain forests of the Central American country where, he
estimates, some 1.6 million Mayan indigenous people live in shacks made
of cornstalks or worse. "We've built only 103 houses in three years.
We've got a long way to go." He runs an organization called From Houses
to Homes in Guatemala, an offshoot of another group he joined six years
ago just as a volunteer to help build small homes for people who, he
says, make a dollar or two a day working in fields. "They have
nothing," he says. "The poverty down there is not like the poverty
around here."
The building of houses for poor people in Guatemala might not appear to
fit into this guy's life. Before he began the work, Collins was -- as
he still is -- a private detective. A specialized one. He is an
adoption detective who finds children given up for adoption and parents
who gave them up. He's good at it and has become a champion of the
right of adoptees to learn more about their past, testifying before the
Legislature, and representing a variety of groups pressing for open
adoption laws. He's lost count of the number of adoptions he's
investigated, but it's in the thousands. "It's how I pay the bills,"
says Collins. "I can do that kind of work anywhere I can bring a
laptop." His interest in Guatemala began when he visited his son Darron
there in 1999. Darron Collins, Joe's only child, was doing
anthropological research for a Ph.D. from Tulane. "Just a visit. He was
down there for two years, and I wanted to see him." What he saw
appalled him. People sleeping in the streets. Or in shacks with no
water. When he returned to the states, to his apartment in Morristown,
the town where he grew up, the images wouldn't let go. "Then one night
I was just sitting in front of the computer and typed 'volunteering in
Guatemala.'" He found an organization that built houses there and
joined it, spending parts of three summers helping to build houses.
When the group shifted its emphasis to Africa, Collins figured he could
continue.
At $1,500 a house, he built 24 in 2005 and another 24 in 2006 and, now,
this year, 55. He raises money, recruits volunteers, even opened an
office in Antigua. His construction of 12-by-19-foot concrete and
stucco houses -- along with his donation of school and health care fees
to the poor -- attracted the attention of the nation's first lady,
Wendy Widmann de Berger, a social reformer who visited Collins'
operation. He returns home to tend to his adoption work and raise money
-- speaking at churches and other places, urging people to do the math.
A few bucks from everybody here wouldn't be missed but could provide a
house to everyone who needs a roof. Collins is not a political guy --
and he's proud of the four years he spent as a Marine -- but he'll
mention in passing that we probably owe something to the people in
Guatemala, a country where the CIA engineered a coup that led to
decades of civil strife. "Why shouldn't we be helping these people?
They are Americans, after all. Central Americans." After his stint in
the Marines, he opened a bar in Morristown with his brother. He says
the business was successful but turned him into a drunk and that ruined
his marriage. He's been sober since 1988. He still looks big and
strong, although in the last year he's suffered a heart attack and just
got through colon cancer. "I'm doing all right," Collins says.
While home, he's writing out nearly a thousand Christmas cards, all
with a pitch for money for his organization. Then he'll go back to
Guatemala Dec. 30. New Year's Eve doesn't hold much of an attraction
for him up here any more. "I'm usually asleep by 10 p.m." Bob Braun's
columns appear Monday and Thursday. He may be reached at
rbraun@starledger.com or (973) 392-4281.
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August , 2007
Daily Record (Morristown, NJ)
July 8, 2007
Author: JAKE REMALY DAILY RECORD
PARSIPPANY -- Last summer on Avon Beach, Sam Baker flew a large dragon
kite that his parents had bought for him. Flapping in the wind, it
almost looked like a real dragon, he said. But in Guatemala, where he
was born, kites aren't as easy to come by. There's a big kite festival
every year on All Souls' Day, or the Day of the Dead, when people fly
massive, colorful kites made out of quilts. "They go to the graveyard
and celebrate, trying to make them (the dead) feel better," said Baker,
an 11-year-old Mount Tabor resident who was adopted from Guatemala.
Most Guatemalan children, though, can't afford the kites, so they run
around with plastic bags attached to sticks, he said. He didn't think
that was fair, so he sent his classmates, neighbors and friends letters
asking for them to donate kites and string so he and his family could
bring them to Guatemala. The family left Saturday for a weeklong trip
to the Latin American country. The day before they left, someone
dropped off five kites on their porch, bringing the total number of
kites collected to 82, his mom, Judy Baker, said. "The kite project
will be enjoyed by so many," said Joe Collins, founder of From Houses
to Homes, an organization that builds houses for families in Guatemala.
"The poor kids here used a plastic bag on the end of a rope for their
kites." "Kite Day in Guatemala is Nov. 2 so this year these poor
children will have something to show and Sam will be their hero, for
sure," Collins, a Morristown man, said via e-mail from Guatemala.
Guatemala is a country of about 12.3 million people just south of
Mexico. About 80 percent of the population lives in poverty, and
two-thirds of that number, about 7.6 million people, live in extreme
poverty, according to the U.S. State Department. Sam said he hid the
kites from his 4-year-old sister, Marissa, who also is adopted from
Guatemala, because he knew she would want to play with them, especially
the character kites with images of the cartoon character Dora the
Explorer. His dad, Bob, and stepsister, Brittany, also are going on the
trip. The Baker family and friends of theirs from Pennsylvania who also
adopted children from Guatemala will join up with a service team to
build three houses of concrete blocks on the trip. The houses take a
week to build and cost $1,500, including bunk beds, said Judy Baker.
The groups are bringing 800 pounds of clothing, along with toys, jump
ropes, yoyos and candy, she said. They are working through From Houses
to Homes, which was founded in 2004. Sam Baker, who hasn't been to
Guatemala since he was adopted when he was six months old, said he is
looking forward to seeing the country where he was born. Jake Remaly
can be reached at (973) 428-6644 or jremaly@gannett.com. Houses to
Homes For more information about From Houses to Homes, visit
www.fromhousestohomes.org. Copyright (c) Daily Record. All rights
reserved. Reproduced with the permission of Gannett Co., Inc. by
NewsBank, inc. Record Number: mor26892251
By Joseph J. Delconzo
Daily Record
Feb 19, 2006
Editor's note:
Joseph J. Delconzo is a New Jersey based photographer who recently
accompanied Morristown native Joe Collins on a trip to Guatemala, where
Collins has been working to build homes for impoverished families.
Collins, who earns a living as a private investigator, runs a program
called Houses to Homes -- Guatemala that seeks to build homes for these
families. The organization also raises money to pay for children to go
to school and provides food, clothing and other necessities to families
in need.
On the following pages are an interview with Collins conducted by
Delconzo; biographies of Collins and Oscar Mejia, Collins'right-hand
man in Guatemala; and a short essay by Delconzo on what he learned.
Delconzo was aided in his reporting and writing by Sharon D. Levis, who
is a student at Brookdale Community College studying communications,
sociology and cultural anthropology.
***
Although the majority of the Guatemalan people are living in what most
Americans would regard as devastating poverty, they are a proud and
dignified people, with a strong sense of family and religion.Their
homes are built from scraps of wood, plastic, sheet metal, or anything
that will provide shelter from the elements. But they will sweep their
dirt floors, hand wash their clothes daily, and work hard at everything
around them. Their strong sense of family is obvious in the way that
they carry themselves when they are together. The touch each other and
smile constantly, and the women will walk arm in arm along the streets.
They are not inhibited when it comes to showing each other affection.
When living with just the basic necessities of life -- food, shelter
and clothing --what people in poverty are left with is their hearts and
souls. There is hardly any influence from the glitz and glamour of
Hollywood or advertising. They are not concerned with getting "things."
And yes, they can be happy, without the distractions that come to us,
in the United States, from all directions.Most of the people living in
this developing country are not even aware that these "things" exist.
Do they want for anything?Yes, of course they do.
What they ask for is food, clothing, shelter, work and a decent
education for their children.
There is something special about the people living in the impoverished
areas of Guatemala. Something perhaps that has been dissipating from
our own society.The first-generation immigrants who arrived in America,
shared their culture with their children, who shared it with their own
children. They were happy living in places like the Lower East Side of
New York.Their focus on life was similar to what the Guatemalan people
still posses: The strong sense of family, and the ability to be happy
with just each other.
***
The following is an
interview with Joe Collins, a lifelong Morristown resident who has been
building homes in impoverished areas of Guatemala.
How did you get involved in Guatemala?
My son, Darron, was here getting his Ph.D. in anthropology at Tulane
(University in New Orleans) and he was living in northern Guatemala for
almost two years with this community. He rented a motorcycle and he
would travel two hours down this dirt road to town, and send me e-mails
on the weekends.
Did you visit him?
I couldn't get over what he was describing to me, so I said, "I'm going
to come visit you." I had to look on a map to find out where Guatemala
was. But I came down and I spent a week with him in this little house
with no electricity. He had just married at the time and his wife was
with him and they said they really got to know each other because there
was no TV and you couldn't read too well with the candlelight, so they
had to talk to each other. She's from Atlanta but they met in New
Orleans.
What did you see there that inspired you?
On the way back from Coban, where they were living, we stopped in
Antigua. I saw the poor living ... they were sleeping on the street out
in the front and there were kids there and there were women there ...
and I said, "God."I just couldn't get over how that was.
When was this?
That was in September of '99, and then it took me two years. ... One
day I was sitting at my computer, and I put in "volunteering in
Antigua." Up came the God's Child Project. That was in July of 2001. In
August 2001, I met five other people, who became part of the service
team when we came down to build the house.
How long were you with that organization?
I volunteered with them for like four years of at least full summers,
and a couple weeks in between, in the fall or in the spring or whatever.
When did things change?
In September of 2004, I went home and remembered wanting to do
something a little bit different than what they were doing. So I looked
into forming my own nonprofit and what it would take and filled out the
forms and in December of 2004 we were approved by the IRS and Jan. 2,
2005, we built our first home.
How many homes since then?
Right now, we're on 24. So we did almost two a month last year in our
first year. It takes us about seven work days to build a house, so the
best we can probably do is two a month, unless we do them
simultaneously, but we're trying to do two a month anyhow.
Do you help in other ways?
We're doing other things to help the poor, other than just structure.
I've got half of my living room or at least a quarter, full of clothes
that I've collected from friends to bring down, but I'm only allowed to
bring two 50-pound bags with me, but I normally bring down at least one
bag with clothes or shoes for the poor. We do clothing distribution
where we give out clothes that other volunteers have brought down or
that I've brought down.
How much does it cost to build a house?
Depending on the number of volunteers we have, we've gotten volunteers
from a lot of the Spanish schools here in Antigua. Sometimes there are
a lot of volunteers and we don't have to hire too many people.
Sometimes we hire Guatemalans to build, so the price varies, but
somewhere between $1,200 and $1,500. You can build a 12 (feet) to 20
(feet) cinder block house for a family. We build bunk beds, where
needed. The one we're building right now will have two bunk beds, three
beds each, so figure six kids. And the cost of that mattresses, sheets,
blankets and pillows come to at least $1,500. Maybe $1,800 with the
three beds.
How are donations?
They were a lot harder in January of last year when we started because
we were new, but now that I have documentation that shows what we have
been able to accomplish in our first year. I'm hoping that it will get
easier in our second year. December was a pretty good month.
Where do the donations come from?
Mostly private donations. No companies. The thing I'm seeing is that
we've had volunteers from Germany, from the Spanish schools, who have
worked with us for a couple of months, some of them, and they have gone
home and they have formed their own "From Houses to Homes --
Germany."They're trying to get paperwork there, where they will try to
raise money and get newspaper articles and stuff in Germany and send
the money through to us, but we haven't received anything yet.
What's the best thing about the organization?
I think the volunteers are the greatest asset that we have because they
experience what we are doing. They see where the money is going and
they have direct contact with the families that they provided homes
for. They can go back home and raise it.
How many volunteers have you had?
Thirty-three volunteers from 11 different countries have worked with us
in the past year.
Are you sustaining right now?
We're surviving at this point. It's been pretty good. I don't know how
long we can go at it, but I just believe. I have a great faith in God
and I think I'm doing the right thing and he'll provide and I have a
firm belief in that.
Who is helping you with this?
I'm very fortunate to have Oscar Mejia as our project director and
Henio Perez Garrido, a hard worker. I have no problems being back in
the states trying to raise money with them helping the poor down here
with the funds that we raise.
Do you do anything besides build homes?
At this time we're registering children for school. We've registered
around 40-some children this year. Last year it was 17 in our first
year. We provide the registration fee. Depending on the year that the
child is in, it costs anywhere from $50 to $75 depending on the school,
but on top of that we have to pay for school supplies. The children
here need school supplies. Some of them don't even have shoes. They
need backpacks. They want to be able to go to school like the rest of
the kids. A family of six with very little income, that's pretty hard
for the mother and/or father to (afford to) educate them.
We met this schoolteacher today that told us about a family with two
children that would not go to school this year if they didn't get
somebody to support (them). There's no welfare system in Guatemala to
help children get educated, that they don't have the money.
Last year we ran into a 13-year-old girl who had never been to school
in her life. We didn't help her because she didn't want to go to a
first-grade school at 13 years old.
You helped with the construction of a church
too, right?
My son, Darron, spent 18, probably 20 months getting his Ph.D while
living with this community, and he asked them, before he was coming
back to the states, if there was anything he could give them? Because
they were the community that he lived with for all that time and they
were the ones that educated him. They were the ones that enabled him to
get his Ph.D. They said that they wanted a church built. So my son sent
me an e-mail saying could I raise some money to build a church?
You did this in memory of your sister?
And my sister just died of a brain tumor and I said I would raise the
money for the church if we could name the church after my sister. He
said, "I'm sure they will be happy to do that." So I raised several
thousand dollars and I sent it down to them. He would send me e-mails
of the construction of this church. That was in 1999.
Have you seen the church?
Two years ago I went back to this community on my own to see the
church. I had to rent a car and drive two hours out this dirt road, the
only American on the road, so far out into the country. I had a picture
of my son, because I didn't know where the church was, and I didn't and
still don't know how to speak the language. When I got an hour and a
half down the road, I started to show my son's picture to the people
that I met. I showed it to one, and they remembered him from 1999. We
went to the church and they had a plaque dedicated in the honor of my
sister. That church, I'm sure, is still standing today. It was a great
thrill to see that. I don't know the name of the town it's in. It's
about two hours outside of Coban, Guatemala.
What are the houses like?
This house here is probably a mansion. ... (It's made of) cement. For
them to have a new cement house that would probably be as much as they
can ever expect in their lifetime.
Do they own this property or rent?
That's what we have to be sure of ... that we see the paperwork from
them. I don't want to build a house with some wealthy landlord and have
him come in after (building) a new house and throw these people out.
But it's probably been in the family for generations.
***
Where did you go to college?
No college. I was 17 and a couple of guys from high school decided to
join the Marines. My parents said, "No, you're not going," and I needed
their signature in order to go and they would not give it to me. They
wanted me to go to college and I said I'll go when I get out.
But you went anyway?
This was August 1958. I said I'm going to be 18 in November of '58, so
either let me go with my friends or ... so they let me go.
In retrospect?
I always wish I went to college because when I got out (of the service)
I didn't go and I had a free ride with the GI bill at the time.
What did you do when you got out?
I went to work for a finance company. I was repossessing cars and I was
making $100 a week repossessing cars in New Jersey. I went to Maple
Shade once to repossess this guy's truck and he pulled a gun on me. And
I said, you know this is not really worth it.
After that?
I worked for a bank after that and I was still in the collection
department. I didn't know it at the time, but they gave me charged off
loans to try to find the people. They gave me 10 accounts the first day
and I found seven of them in a week. I didn't know it at the time, but
this helped me with my P.I. (private investigator) work that I'm doing
for finding birth mothers. That was in the '60s.
Then you left the bank for the bar?
I left the bank in '69 and I started bartending. I was making more
money bartending than I was at the bank for sure.
In November of 1971, I bought Collins Pub in Morris Plains with my
brother. I stayed there until '88. I said, "I want out,"and he bought
me out and he's there to this day, so he's got 34 years as an owner. We
bought the pub and named it Collins Pub. It was great, we had some wild
times, we were successful, we made a lot of money there.
And then real estate?
So in '88 I got out and I went into real estate. I worked for Jim
Weichert, Weichert Realtors, for four to five years.
What did the career counselor say?
In 1991, I went to a career counselor and this guy was in Summit, and
he asked me what I wanted to do, if I could do anything ... and I said
that I wanted to be an FBI agent, but I was too old and I didn't have
any college, and so on.
He said, "What's the second thing?" I told him about years earlier, my
cousin had four adopted children and my cousin said to me that one day
that they wanted to find their birth mothers. And I said, "Well, let me
try it."
I found both girls' mothers. One in a day and one in a week. And I was
thrilled, and I was there at their reunion of these two women after 30
years with their birth mothers. So I told the career counselor about
that and he said, "Why don't you try to do something in that field? You
don't need a college education or anything like that."
You became a private investigator?
So, I went and I worked for a PI for five years, and after five years
in New Jersey you can get your own PI license, so I got my own PI
license, and I've just been reuniting adoptees since 1991.
Have you been busy?
I've reunited over 1,700 adoptees with their birth families in the last
14 years worldwide. I recently had an adoptee from Australia, got my
name, wanted me to find her birth father, and I found him in Calgary,
Canada. That was my most long distance find. I found one woman once in
Mexico City from New Jersey. That took me six years to find her. That
was my longest search.
Weren't you on the "Sally Jessy Raphael" show?
The most exciting thing was that I made it to the "Sally Jessy Raphael
Show" once. That was an exciting time. That was in '91 or '92, right
when I first started. A man and his wife were separated in Winfield
Park. And the man had come home and wanted to get back into the house
and his wife was arguing with him and he wouldn't let her in. And he
pulled out a gun and killed her. And he killed her mother, and her
sister and then shot himself; four dead in Winfield Park.
Well, those people had three kids: 4 years old, 3 years old, 18 months.
They all were there when the father shot everyone. The 4- and
3-year-olds were girls and the 18-month-old was a boy. They all got
split up into separate homes. This was 50 years ago, back in the late
'40's.
One woman had an article (in the newspaper) about going onto "Sally
Jessy" to put a plea out to find her brother and sister. She was the
4-year-old, and I saw the article in the paper before they hit the
show, and I found the 3-year-old sister. And they told me not to have
either one of them talk to each other, because they were going to be
reunited live on "Sally Jessy Raphael" after 50 years.
I had my family there and I was new at this and I thought this was
cool. And I got a lot of business from it. To reunite two sisters after
50 years ... The funny part was the boy, I couldn't find. ... Less than
a year, maybe nine months to a year later, I get a phone call and the
boy says, "I hear you're looking for me."
I said, "Who are you?" and he told me that he was the brother. He
happens to be a PI in California and somebody found him, I didn't find
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